Six Years of Crumbs: I Sacrificed My 20s for a Married Man Who Won’t Even Eat My Food

Hide my Id Admin. Am a young wise lady aged 32 dating a married man for 6 years now. This man has suffered me that in the 6 years we have dated, he has never come home without being called i need to beg for him to come see me. He doesnt eat in my house nor bath there. No matter how i prepare the meal or water to bath.

He has rarely give me money and yet he has a well paying job. We dont have a child together and i have been telling him to say honey lets have a child we arent growing any younger all he said was ine ana ndilinawo ndi akazi anga and ndilibe pressure. The wife is currently pregnant and all he does is use a condom on me. We rarely make love even once in two months and it will be me to initiate.

We had a funeral my grandpa died people, this man only came chama 10pm kunseu and I spoke to him pa window. All he said was simubwela kunseu kuno and he never came for the buriel. Am tired of this man. My friends tell me one day he will chenge but i feel this man will never chenge.

He cant remember our anniversary or my Birthday. I dont know any of his friends or family. Ane day i insisted to say i want to know your people to be safe only for him to show me his 2 year old daughter and said even her she is my people so waziwako m’modzi yekha its enough. From that time i stoped calling him and we havent communicated since February this year. Does this man love me or maybe i move on? Help me people.